Domestic Violence is an anger control issue

Anger is a tool abusers use to get what they want. We know abusers are actually very much in control because they can stop when someone knocks on the door or the phone rings; they often direct punches and kicks to parts of the body where the bruises are less likely to show; and they are abusing everyone who makes them angry , but waits until there are no witnesses and abuses the one he says he loves.