Motivational Quotes

Suffering

Crying is the refuge of plain women, but the ruin of pretty ones.

- Oscar Wilde

Best Quotes about Suffering

Never to suffer would never to have been blessed.

Edgar Allan Poe

To choose a hardship for ourselves is our only defense against that hardship. This is what is meant by accepting suffering. Those who, by their very nature, can suffer completely, utterly, have an advantage. That is how we can disarm the power of suffering, make it our own creation, our own choice; submit to it. A justification for suicide.

Pavese, Cesare

How little it takes to make life unbearable: a pebble in the shoe, a cockroach in the spaghetti, a woman's laugh.

Mencken, H. L.

What really raises one's indignation against suffering is not suffering intrinsically, but the senselessness of suffering.

Nietzsche, Friedrich

It is not suffering as such that is most deeply feared but suffering that degrades.

Sontag, Susan

It is better that ten guilty persons escape than one innocent suffer

Blackstone, Sir William

Rather suffer than die is man's motto.

La Fontaine, Jean De

Suffering is by no means a privilege, a sign of nobility, a reminder of God. Suffering is a fierce, bestial thing, commonplace, uncalled for, natural as air. It is intangible; no one can grasp it or fight against it; it dwells in time -- is the same thing as time; if it comes in fits and starts, that is only so as to leave the sufferer more defenseless during the moments that follow, those long moments when one relives the last bout of torture and waits for the next.

Pavese, Cesare

So long as little children are allowed to suffer, there is no true love in this world.

Isodore Duncan

10.

It is the lot of man to suffer.

Disraeli, Benjamin

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I have found that it don't really matter if you're brought up fine or rough, but that it helps to have someone to spill your sorrows to.

Erica Eisdorfer

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Crying is the refuge of plain women, but the ruin of pretty ones.

Oscar Wilde

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Without out suffering, our work would just be social work, very good and helpful, but it would not be the work of Jesus Christ, not part of the Redemption. All the desolation of the poor people, not only their material poverty, but their spiritual destitution, must be redeemed. And we must share it, for only by being one with them can we redeem them by bringing God into their lives and bringing them to God.

Mother Teresa

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If suffer we must, let's suffer on the heights.

Victor Hugo

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There is no true love save in suffering, and in this world we have to choose either love, which is suffering, or happiness. Man is the more man -- that is, the more divine -- the greater his capacity for suffering, or rather, for anguish.

Unamuno, Miguel De

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A cold in the head causes less suffering than an idea.

Renard, Jules

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What was hard to suffer is sweet to remember.

Seneca

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Great artists suffer for the people.

Gaye, Marvin

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To perceive is to suffer.

Aristotle

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It is not true that suffering ennobles the character; happiness does that sometimes, but suffering, for the most part, makes men petty and vindictive.

Maugham, W. Somerset

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It is good for me that I was afflicted that I may learn Thy statutes. [Psalms 119:71]

Bible

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Suffering by nature or chance never seems so painful as suffering inflicted on us by the arbitrary will of another.

Schopenhauer, Arthur

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A misery is not to be measured from the nature of the evil, but from the temper of the sufferer.

Joseph Addison

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There is not much sense in suffering, since drugs can be given for pain, itching, and other discomforts. The belief has long died that suffering here on earth will be rewarded in heaven. Suffering has lost its meaning.

KuBler-Ross, Elisabeth

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In the part of this universe that we know there is great injustice, and often the good suffer, and often the wicked prosper, and one hardly knows which of those is the more annoying.

Bertrand Russell

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Is suffering so very serious? I have come to doubt it. It may be quite childish, a sort of undignified pastime -- I'm referring to the kind of suffering a man inflicts on a woman or a woman on a man. It's extremely painful. I agree that it's hardly bearable. But I very much fear that this sort of pain deserves no consideration at all. It's no more worthy of respect than old age or illness.

Colette, Sidonie Gabrielle

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Don't look forward to the day you stop suffering, because when it comes you'll know you're dead.

Williams, Tennessee

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One writes of scars healed, a loose parallel to the pathology of the skin, but there is no such thing in the life of an individual. There are open wounds, shrunk sometimes to the size of a pin-prick but wounds still. The marks of suffering are more comparable to the loss of a finger, or the sight of an eye. We may not miss them, either, for one minute in a year, but if we should there is nothing to be done about it.

Fitzgerald, F. Scott

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If you suffer, thank God! It is a sure sign that you are alive.

Hubbard, Elbert

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Suffering is the ancient law of love; there is not quest without pain; there is no lover who is not also a martyr.

Suso, Heinrich

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To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering.

Flack, Roberta

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It is by a wise economy of nature that those who suffer without change, and whom no one can help, become uninteresting. Yet so it may happen that those who need sympathy the most often attract it the least.

Bradley, Francis H.

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But penance need not be paid in suffering...It can be paid in forward motion. Correcting the mistake is a positive move, a nurturing move.

Barbara Hall

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The salvation of the world is in man's suffering.

Faulkner, William

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Wisdom comes alone through suffering.

Aeschylus

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The truth that many people never understand, until it is too late, is that the more you try to avoid suffering the more you suffer because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you in proportion to your fear of being hurt.

Thomas Merton

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Naked I came from my mother's womb, and naked I shall return there. The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away blessed be the name of the Lord.

Bible

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I have suffered too much in this world not to hope for another.

Rousseau, Jean Jacques

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It is a glorious thing to be indifferent to suffering, but only to one's own suffering.

Lynd, Robert

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In default of inexhaustible happiness, eternal suffering would at least give us a destiny. But we do not even have that consolation, and our worst agonies come to an end one day.

Camus, Albert

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You desire to know the art of living, my friend? It is contained in one phrase: make use of suffering.

Henri-FrÚdÚric Amiel

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You do not have to suffer to be a poet. Adolescence is enough suffering for anyone.

Ciardi, John

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Pain is inevitable; suffering is optional.

44.

Every age, every culture, every custom and tradition has its own character, its own weakness and its own strength, its beauties and cruelties; it accepts certain sufferings as matters of course, puts up patiently with certain evils. Human life is reduced to real suffering, to hell, only when two ages, two cultures and religions overlap.

Hesse, Hermann

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Man cannot remake himself without suffering, for he is both the marble and the sculptor.

Carrel, Alexis

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I felt despair. Though it seems to me now there's two kinds of it: the sort that causes a person to surrender and then the sort I had which made me take risks and make plans.

Erica Eisdorfer

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But a somewhat more liberal and sympathetic examination of mankind will convince us that the cross is even older than the gibbet, that voluntary suffering was before and independent of compulsory; and in short that in most important matters a man has always been free to ruin himself if he chose.

G. K. Chesterton

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Suffering becomes beautiful when anyone bears great calamities with cheerfulness, not through insensibility but through greatness of mind.

Aristotle

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We all choke.

Strange, Curtis

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To become a spectator of one's own life is to escape the suffering of life.

Wilde, Oscar