Remember that marriage is a nuts and bolts arrangement

While you are planning your wedding, you may entertain fairy tale notions of a life lived happily ever after. The reality of marriage is that sometimes, its just a day to day grind one or both of you may be tense, on edge, bored, not happy with the other one, not feel so warm and fuzzy. Its not all about your feelings. Repeat: it is not all about your feelings. Its about your commitment to one another. Whether or not you feel like you are in love, feel you are getting your needs met, or whatever, the reality is, you have sworn a vow to one another. A lot of the time, marriage isnt romantic at all its about teamwork and getting the job done every single day.