Make peace with your sexuality

Your femininity and sexuality are powerful forces that at the risk of sounding like a superhero movie can be used for good or evil. Women who are successful at love tend to embrace a healthy perspective of their feminine charms. They dont repress their sexuality and they dont use it as a means of acting out, sabotaging themselves, or manipulating the men they date. If you feel trapped by the need to repress your femininity sexuality, or if you use it to express negative feelings about yourself, or hurt or control others, get help. Having a healthy perspective on who you are as a woman, and seeing your feminine and sexual charms as something healthy and beautiful to bring to a loving, committed relationship, makes you a more attractive, viable partner.