Are you creating more pleasurable interactions in your marriage or are you making it painful or unpleasant for your spouse

If your spouse treats you with kindness, gentleness, patience and self control, its easy for you to respond kindly. If you are treated badly, with anger, impatience, etc., its difficult to be nice in return. Focus on how you can be a blessing to your spouse and, in turn, you will be blessed and so will your marriage.