wedding

Dont worry too much about tripping your way down the aisle chances are you wont fall. And if you do, you will still have a smilling husband to be standing at the end of the aisle waiting to marry you!

Try to spend time with all your wedding guests for unforgettable memories of your wedding day

Block off the front seats at the ceremony for your bridal party and make sure the ushers know where to direct people.

Appoint someone to collect your gifts and transport them safely home after the reception. This also goes for any hired suits; ask a trusted family member or friend to return these for you while you're away

At the reception make sure guests know when you are leaving. If you intend on partying the night away say so, but if you have a getaway vehicle planned it is also nice to let your guests know. That way they can plan their departure too.

While you are getting ready, do not forget to have lunch , or you risk the reception drinks going straight to your head

Do not forget to feed your suppliers too: a hungry DJ wo not thank you at midnight! And ask someone to save you a favour and a piece of cake you want to ensure you get a taste of them.

Feeling a little jittery? Relax, its normal, healthy even. You are just concerned about a lifetime commitment ,its hardly the end of the world and it doesnot mean you do not want to get married. Acknowledge your nerves, discuss them with a trusted friend, and move on.

On the day have a bridesmaid or the man of honour take you and your new husband aside so you can just have 10 minutes alone together. Your vows may be the most important part of the day, and despite it being the first day of your lives together you will be surprised how little time you will spend with him on the actual day. This way you can be sure to have a minute to take it all in before the guest-welcoming-and-thanking beings!

Have an on the day coordinator so you do not have to worry about all the details.