tips to succeed in life

Tips to succeed in Life

Regardless of how old you are, where you live, or what your career goals are.
21. Enjoy the present moment
If you are constantly dwelling on the past or daydreaming about the future, you are missing out on the present moment. Remember that the past and the future are simply illusions, and that real life takes place here and now.
Start paying attention to negative thoughts so that you can learn to silence them and enjoy the present moment. If a negative thought arises in your head, then acknowledge it, label it a negative thought, and then let it fade away.
Get in the habit of paying attention to the small details around you. Appreciate the feeling of the sun on your skin, the sensation of your feet walking on the ground, or the artwork in the restaurant you are eating in. Noticing things like these will help you silence a rambling mind and appreciate every moment.
22. Don t compare your own life to other peoples lives
Unfortunately, many people measure their own success by comparing it to the success of those around them. If you want to feel accomplished and happy, you will have to stop comparing your life to other peoples lives.
Many people have the tendency to compare the low points of their own lives with the high points of other peoples lives. Remember that no matter how perfect somebody s life may seem, behind closed doors everybody deals with tragedy, insecurity, and other difficulties.
Rather than comparing yourself with people who are better off than you, think about all of the people who are homeless, chronically ill, or living in poverty. This will help you appreciate what you have rather than feeling sorry for yourself.
23. Count your blessings
No matter how much you achieve in life, you will always feel unhappy if you constantly focus on what you don t have. Instead, devote time every day to appreciating the things you do have. Think beyond material items; appreciate your loved ones, and remember happy memories.
24. Look after your health
A healthy body supports a healthy mind. Eat a balanced diet and ensure that you aren t lacking in any necessary nutrients. Establish the cause of any problems you may experience, such as a lack of energy or a lack of concentration and deal with them by discussing with a doctor, nutritionist and related health professionals. Get plenty of exercise too but align it with what you love to do rather than what you feel you have to do but dislike.
25. Environment
The environment around us has a huge impact on us on all levels of conscious subconscious and unconscious . This includes the place we live in, friends we have, things we read, people we see and the list goes on. Environment is contagious. Thomas A Edison said he was able to become a successful inventor because he placed himself in the company of people who were much more smarter than him and then he was able to learn from them. We offer most of our thoughts in response to the environment we are subjected to.
Try this experiment. Put yourself in company of people who are into gambling, or anything in particular they are interested in, for sometime and then monitor your thoughts and emotions. Most likely your thoughts will be correspondent to the environment you subjected yourself to. Have you noticed that you feel serene and calm when you go to a beautiful lake or some beautiful natural environment.
26. Macro environment
The entities with which we spend most of our time lie in Macro environment. The place you live, the place you work, the colleagues, friends with whom you spend most of the time etc. All these are part of macro environment. Its very important that you put yourself in a macro environment which motivates you constantly to become successful. This also includes You, if you spend a lot of time with yourself you are the environment in this case and you have a reactive brain then most likely you will have reactive thoughts unless you change your environment.
27. Micro environment
These are entities with which we don t spend much time with, for example coffee shop, people you say hello to, grocery store, new people you meet at bars etc. This usually don t have a long term impact on you unless you change it into macro environment.
28. One common goal
Luckily for most of us, personal success is not a matter of background, intelligence, or native ability. Its not our family, friends, or contacts who enable us to do extraordinary things. Instead, the keys to success are our ability to get the very best out of ourselves under almost all conditions and circumstances. It is your ability to adapt and change your life.You have within you, right now, deep reserves of potential and ability that, if properly harnessed and channeled, will enable you to accomplish extraordinary things with your life. Get my FREE report Roots of Resilience and develop your ability to overcome difficulties, adversities, obstacles and setbacks.
29. Hard work is the key to prosperity
A truly successful person works much and hard. Good luck come to those who are working hard and diligently. From time to time, work seems too heavy and not encouraging. You feel that what you are doing will not bring fruit and is just a waste of energy. But do not give up. Do not look for easy ways and do not fool yourself. Enjoy the sense of joy of the completed work. If you work hard, you will never be hungry or depressed. And you will get rewarded with your future achievements.
30. Be positive
Positive attitude is a result of a balanced life plan, supported by a daily willingness to self improvement see the first two tips . You are a kind and hardworking person. You are independent and reliable. Be sure that you can control your own future.