promise day

Promise Day

Promise Day is celebrated on 11th February worldwide during the fifth day of Valentine week.
21. I dont ever want to hurt you
By saying this, you will be telling him that you really care about his feelings. It will make him not want to hurt you too.
22. You mean everything to me
We can bet that your boyfriend wants to hear this line so bad. So when he is a good guy, you can reward him with this line.
23. I love you
It may be traditional, but there is something about this line that it appeals to all. Everyone wants to be loved, especially by the person they love. This is probably the best thing you could say to him. However, say it like you mean it and ONLY when you mean it.
24. The Value of His Word
People who keep their promises are considered reliable and responsible. This is true in all facets of life in relationships and in careers. Point out that chronically breaking promises will convince others that he isnt dependable. Your boyfriend should understand that not keeping his word demonstrates a lack of respect for himself. Additionally, it can hurt his self image and self esteem, according to Gielan. Ask him to consider the long term effects of having a reputation for being untrustworthy and irresponsible.
25. Your Feelings
Many people make promises because they think the promise will make someone happy. Explain that his promises do not make you happy because you doubt that he will carry them out. Clarify that when he breaks a promise, his actions make you feel devalued, unimportant to him and angry because he has let you down again. Turn the tables and ask him how he would feel if you made promises you didnt keep. Ask him to consider your feelings before he promises something that he might not be able to deliver on.
26. Making Strategies
Promises should be realistic with a specific outcome and definable result, according to life coach Dave Ellis in his book Falling Awake Creating the Life of Your Dreams. When your boyfriend makes a promise, ask him if he can realistically carry through on the promise and how you will know if he does. Explain the consequences for breaking the promise, such as refusing to date him if he breaks another date or allowing him to find his own way to work or school if he isnt ready when you arrive to pick him up. Remind him that you want advance warning if a conflict comes up so you can make alternative arrangements if you are depending on him for something important.