Marriage Tips
51. Accept your partner exactly as they are today
Dont try to change him/her
52. When your partner tells you something that is bothering him
When we mirror, this helps us not feel as defensive and allows us the opportunity to better understand what he is trying to communicate.
53. The best way to strengthen a marriage is to support and assist each other in being the best you can be
A strong marriage is one in which both people understand that the other person needs to have outside interests and activities which help them to feel happy and fulfilled. A strong marriage is one where both people understand that it is more important to be happy than it is to be right.
54. Have you lost that loving feeling
1.Write down 10 qualities you loved about your partner when you first met and read it to each other.
2: Brainstorm a list of 10 fun things you did together when you first met; do one date per week and enjoy bringing back that loving feeling!
2: Brainstorm a list of 10 fun things you did together when you first met; do one date per week and enjoy bringing back that loving feeling!
55. Youre entitled to the occasional bad mood
Youre not entitled to make your partner the whipping boy.
56. A strong marriage is a partnership in trust
Trust your partner in everything, including purchases and financial decisions, and to bring up things with you that need a joint decision. If you cant do that, the two of you have a problem.
57. Always remember that life is long
In the heat of the moment, what feels super important will likely fade in importance as time goes by. Before you react by yelling, tossing insults or unkind words, remember that This, too, shall pass. In fact, recent studies have shown that even the most unhappiest of couples report being very happy five years later. So dont let one unfortunate incident, difficult argument or challenging moment destroy your lifetime ofhappiness.
58. A woman needs her partner to spend time giving her his full attention and looking directly into her eyes
When she receives this, she can easily get in touch with her feelings of love for her husband and becomes much more receptive to his needs. This is how intimacy can be fulfilling for both people ... magical even!
59. Use character related words that honor your spouse for such qualities as patience helpfulness
.Create regular opportunities for fun, laughter, and positive experiences. Figure out what communicates love to each other and do that. Be observant and thoughtful with little things and even do chores that the other dislikes. Consciously doing what opens and softens your spouses heart will benefit you both in the long run and keep your marriage happier.
